At home parents are spoiling their young children and making it harder for teachers at school. It is always good to praise infants and young children but when do you know you’ve went to far? Teachers claim that the number of spoilt kids is increasing in schools and so is the misbehaving.“Little princes and princesses” are taking advantage of their parents’ kindness. They are spoilt and left for the teachers to deal with for the majority of the day. Teachers report that these students are the ones that believe that they don’t have to follow the basic classroom rules and don’t have to obey the teachers. Teachers have to deal with “low-level bad behavior” for example, shouting out in class, temper tantrums and refusal to follow basic classroom rules. Parents think that it’s cute until the child grows older. Most of the time they grow to be the classroom bully and/or aggressive and abusive in the home.
Some parents, especially adults with only one child, have difficulty saying no to their kid(s). To help Steve Sinnott, the boss of the National Union of Teachers, also known as NUT, called for a meeting to help the parents who have a hard time saying “no”. During this meeting, it was brought to the parents’ attention that some children want rules laid down or a form of discipline as a sign of security.
The spoilt children feel as if nothing is their fault and they shouldn’t be punished for anything. They also believe that they don’t have to do anything that bores them or is difficult to a certain extent. Some parents however don’t see anything wrong with this behavior and blame the teachers whenever the child is upset of angry.
Along this argument, the National Union of Teachers also suggest that qualified teachers should run nurseries. Their reason for this is because it would be easier and quicker for a teacher to recognize a student’s development problems and they would be able to take action sooner. General Secretary Steve Sinnott speaks against this saying that the most important thing for children at the nursery ages is to have fun and be open to a variety of ideas. He also says and warns that it would be the worst thing if a new early years curriculum became too “tick box”. A motion was presented saying that play is crucial to the child’s learning because it gives the child more confidence to learn.
By the year 2010, the government plans on making sure that Children’s Centres are lead by early years professionals. For example, Mr.Sinnott speaks that teachers at these levels would be highly skilled and able to use their professional judgement to spot development problems, which contradicts his earlier words. Most nurseries are staffed by low-paid workers who possess only basic qualifications, even though the nurseries are of high cost. The motion that I mentioned earlier stating that by the year 2010 all nurseries will be run by qualified teachers has been modified and has been applied to all government-funded Children’s Centres which offer nursery provision for 3-5 year olds. Hopefully, this will help eliminate the amount of spoilt children and “future bullies” 🙂
Here are some sources to check out:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/education/7311865.stm